Operation Appreciation

How much effort does it really take to show someone your appreciation ?? Is it that time consuming that you need to be reminded to make time for it? Or should it just come natural?
I get offended when people tend to take things for granted and act like thats what your suppose to do , so no need for them to show you any appreciation. They expect you to know that they appreciate you doing whatever you did for them. If thats the case whats the point of THANK YOU? If you know that the person knows your thankful for whatever you did for them , there is no need to say thank you.
The smallest gesture to show someone that you appreciate them , can be the biggest thing ever.

Like for instance i have a friend that feels that they dont need no help from anyone, they have built up some type of belief system that they are all good by themselves. But if you really think that whats the point of having friends?? If you dont need anyone to do anything for you , you might as well be by your damn self?? Right???

I dont need anyone to buy stuff for me or give me stuff but if they do i appreciate anything that i can get. Whether it be something purchased, some helpful advice or even just a helping hand with something. I feel that there is so much in this world that we cant do and thats the purpose of having people that can help you do it.

I have another friend that unconsciously thinks that this is how it should be and if they do shout you out every once in awhile that you should be thankful for that and appreciate that. I think its quite tickling that if people automatically stop doing stuff for this person they would think a tad bit different. I dont think i should have to change who i am just to teach you that you should be more appreciative. You should already know. But for some reason the world doesnt work like that.

So Operation Appreciation Begins ....
Everyone should always say thank you after anything is done for you and you should tell anyone that you think has stuck there neck out for you in the slightest way .." Hey I appreciate......" Its not that hard...
Try it and tell me how it works..

Who Determines your Happiness??

You do!! Its in the Palm of your hands and only at your disposal..

Many people always think that once your happy or you think that your happy that it stops there . Being happy is something you have to really want to be and its something that needs maintained at all times...One oz.. of someone's unhappiness can throw you off...Stay positive..

My Rock" named "Biggs "

Just letting you get to know my Inspiration and the Beat to my Heart...
If there was a perfect definition for him he would be in the Webster dictionary. Love of My Life, my best friend , Soul mate, and ..... Cant give you to much because have to leave something to the wondering mind.
I would have to say that it takes alot to deal with me in all aspects and i think this man is made out of the toughest steel in the universe because nothing seems to break him. I guess that's what makes him so special to me , it doesnt take much for him to make me smile or happy . You really cant asked for much when you have someone like him... I could go on for days about how great he is but ........ i wont..=)

Force of Words

In Pastor Kevin's Words
Your Words are like a Steering Wheel.. They guide you to the right or wrong direction.

What Kind of Force are my words creating?
"When some people speak they build mountains , when some people speak they move mountains." Which do you do ?
Words spoken are a creative...

He gave us 6 Rules to live by with our words...

1. Speak only to BUILD OTHERS UP
Eph 4:29
Be positive when speaking to others...

2. Speak without COMPLAINING & ARGUING
Phil 2:14
He said some people talk little but when they do talk they are always complaining about something or pointing out the negative in something. They never really know that they are a complainer because all they do is complain.

3. Dont Talk To MUCH
ECC 6:11
When talking to much the value of your words go down. Know when to shush sometimes =)

4. Speak without Gossiping
Prov 11:13Prov 16:28
Prov 26:20
We all are guilty of this....But when you listen to what you hear you become a part of it ...

5. Speak without CRITICIZING OTHERS
Luke 6:37
If its not your place to be speaking on it then don't , there is a big difference between constructive criticism and criticizing others.

6.Speak to the HIGHEST LEVEL OF YOUR FAITH
COR 4:13

Out with the Old in with the New

Sometimes you dont know how much of the old you have until you clean up. There can be so much from your past that your unconsciously holding on to. Really it has been ready to be dumped for some time now, so you can make more room for the new . It can be materialistic things, old thoughts, and old ways. Start fresh, make room for new things to enter your life. There is nothing like a fresh beginning especially if you have someone new in your life. Biggs and I just cleaned up our closet ,though he came in with not much i had alot to get rid of. After we made our room look like Hurricane Katrina had hit Washington ..lol it felt really good to get rid of old things. Biggs is the reserve type but today he let it be known that it was time for me to be out with the old and in with the New (Mr. Biggs)
Its 3am and i actually feel more refreshed than i have felt in a awhile...
No need to be holding on to things that you no longer have use for, Just get rid of it. You have plenty of time to accumulate more junk. Dont let it just be a New Years Resolution let it be something that is done all the time..
S/o to you ...Thanks Love .

Mr Biggs & Tiff

The Love of My Life.....More to come on this guy...

Jelly Belly's

This is Definitely not a good look on anyone. You should never be jealous of anything that anyone else has. You have no idea how they got it or what it took to get it. So many poeople assume that because a person has something that they must have got it the easy way. One never lets there mind wonder what did they had to sacrifice to get it. We look at celebrities and Rich people , wishing that we could be them or if only we had what they had then we would be happier. We only know what we see and what we hear. If we dont see the 10 year struggle that one had to obtain all that they have who are we to be judging or jealous. Jealousy is a powerful thing and can really lead to self destruction. Even if you dont say it out loud, thinking it is just as bad.

DisLoyalty

Well I can say that this subject is near and dear to my heart. Over the past year My Love and I have been dealing with this subject. And i decided its time for me to speak on it.


Dis·loy·al·ty [ diss lóy əltee ] (plural dis·loy·al·ties)


noun

Definition:

1. being disloyal: a lack of loyalty to a person, vow, organization, or state


2. disloyal act: a disloyal or unfaithful act

Some don't understand the depth and understanding of a good friendship and others take it for granted because evidentally Great Friends Grow on Trees...
This doesn't mean that you have to agree with your friend at all times or you must think that what ever they do or say is right. This is something that comes with trust and friendship.

Like our friend BB
Unfortunately his Loyalty lays all over our city, it took us a minute to realize that this was going to potentially hurt us in the end. Which it did it cost us 230 dollars... Yea i know why did we end up losing money.. Long story just know that you cant trust everyone. But as we came to see that we would have to go on in life with out BB because it wasn't worth the Wonder ...Wondering if we were the Lucky number 7/11 that week and was his loyalty coming to us or to John Doe!!

Mr. Follower
This guy does what ever the next guy does so really i dont even know why we even called him a friend. There isnt even much to go on ..lol

Sex Addict
This particular person decided that getting that lil bit of extra sex was worth a lifetime of friendship. Though i still keep in contact with them . I realize that a loyal friendship would never be restored.

Misses Me Too
She some how can do everything that you can do...Trust she told me " Me Too" she is another one, her loyalty lays to him , but his loyalty lays to me on occasions..lol and for some reason instead of her just coming out and saying that she felt it was better just to prove how disloyal she could actually be.

Powerful Prayer
Dont let them fool you , they are still trying to find themselves . So unfortunately in the simplest situation they became lost that quick. When it all came down to it they chose door B . Now there is nothing wrong with choosing Door B because everyone is entitled to there options. But those options are also entitled to closing that door forever. I will say that this was the one that got under my skin the most because i felt that how can someone that you think is such genuine person could never become the complete opposite. I was completely wrong and shell shocked. In my heart i said "this cant be happening to me" and In my head it was saying "there have been red flags since day one."




You cant be Loyal to everyone, and you cant expect everyone to be Loyal to you....

No Love Lost ....

Its amazing how many people think that if someone walks out of your life , that your life is over or what can you do without them. They have invested so much Love into that person that they just dont know what to do. My motto is No Love Lost , there is a good reason why there time is up in your life and you might not understand it at the moment but even if it takes years for you yo finally get the picture . You one day will understand how your better off without them. You cant find new love if your still concentrated on trying to make your old love your new love. I have alot of friends out there with this exact problem. I use to be that girl also, i finally had to take a step back re evaluate my situation and realize that it was time to move on. So when someone walks out your life think " No Love Lost" just more love to give someone else..

Damn its been a long time...Way to Long... Lets see how long it takes me to catch up. Maybe I just can start from right now...Sounds good to me.