Thursday, June 3, 2010

Dictionary Definition

Dictionary

Everything has a definition...every word can be defined as something. Many words can have numerous definitions.,but how do you know what definition is defining your words. Words are just words its how you say the words and what type of sentence you use with your words helps one build some sort of definition. Emotion felt through the words can also help. It can extremely hinder a person when they can only use the Standard Dictionary to define someones words in which they are trying to gain an understanding. If you know someone and you know them well why continue to use standard definitions when communicating with them. By now your words and their words should hold a new type a meaning in your head.
In my opinion i feel as if you love me and you care about me , you care enough to gain some type of understanding of what I'm talking about. If you care to continue using standard definitions to define our communication, we have an issue and its a Communication Barrier .
Why is it that for two people to effectively communicate you tend to have that one person that never understand clearly what your say the first time? Why is it that we need to have a continuous argument about the definition of words by emotion. Choosing to only use standard definitions when you have various options of defining will continue to be a problem for us until we both understand the value of a word and the many meanings the word contains.

Sunday, January 31, 2010

More to come Tomorrow

More to come tomorrow im getting sleepy and tomorrow your going to need Quality because there is some lessons to be learned and things to know that you should not do...
Toodles
Ms. Terry

Rocky Roads


So how this all starts is so crazy so ill just begin:
This summer was quite the summer my cousin that is younger than i was mack of the year i shall say, and probably with a little assistance from me he was able to pull this off. But in the end i had nothing to do with the outcome. i wish i did because i wouldnt be minus a friend a plus a baby (not me my bestie). I thought that things could be brought to the forefront and just be dealt with and all of us could move on. I would have to say that i wasnt a great role model in this situation either because in my own world i was playing this deadly game also. I will say that we both had been dealing with two or more people that are involved in the same circle. Which i will say that it all started out innocent but then gradually turned into a deadly love game. I believe that the ones that had us so long really had started to take us for granted and i think thats what lead us both to open our hearts to other people. What we failed to do was keep the other people in the same loop and basically was sneaking around with them. The two new people knew what was going on but everyone else was in the dark. Well when we decided to let everyone know what was really going on our situations became more different than similar. He decided to go back to the other girl and left the one girl hanging. Well that lasted about 4 and half days because she then found out she was several months pregnant and to everyone's surprise including her's that wasn't what we were expecting.. So gradually the other girl was pushed to the back and decided that she was ok with leaving him alone and finding something new. In my situation i chose up and decided to leave my old news alone and decided to start fresh with the new news. Never expecting anything to come out of it just a fresh beginning with someone that was more on the same page with me. Well now the story begins.............

Its about that Time


Well its been so long since i have blogged , i really don't have any legitimate excuse besides the fact that i have been lazy. Man i have so much to say so it might take me a few days to get everything out. From finding Love unexpectedly , losing a friend over some bullshit, having a new addition to our group, space finding, moving on, parenting, and just everything so brace your self its going to be good...