Mr Biggs & Tiff

The Love of My Life.....More to come on this guy...

Jelly Belly's

This is Definitely not a good look on anyone. You should never be jealous of anything that anyone else has. You have no idea how they got it or what it took to get it. So many poeople assume that because a person has something that they must have got it the easy way. One never lets there mind wonder what did they had to sacrifice to get it. We look at celebrities and Rich people , wishing that we could be them or if only we had what they had then we would be happier. We only know what we see and what we hear. If we dont see the 10 year struggle that one had to obtain all that they have who are we to be judging or jealous. Jealousy is a powerful thing and can really lead to self destruction. Even if you dont say it out loud, thinking it is just as bad.

DisLoyalty

Well I can say that this subject is near and dear to my heart. Over the past year My Love and I have been dealing with this subject. And i decided its time for me to speak on it.


Dis·loy·al·ty [ diss lóy əltee ] (plural dis·loy·al·ties)


noun

Definition:

1. being disloyal: a lack of loyalty to a person, vow, organization, or state


2. disloyal act: a disloyal or unfaithful act

Some don't understand the depth and understanding of a good friendship and others take it for granted because evidentally Great Friends Grow on Trees...
This doesn't mean that you have to agree with your friend at all times or you must think that what ever they do or say is right. This is something that comes with trust and friendship.

Like our friend BB
Unfortunately his Loyalty lays all over our city, it took us a minute to realize that this was going to potentially hurt us in the end. Which it did it cost us 230 dollars... Yea i know why did we end up losing money.. Long story just know that you cant trust everyone. But as we came to see that we would have to go on in life with out BB because it wasn't worth the Wonder ...Wondering if we were the Lucky number 7/11 that week and was his loyalty coming to us or to John Doe!!

Mr. Follower
This guy does what ever the next guy does so really i dont even know why we even called him a friend. There isnt even much to go on ..lol

Sex Addict
This particular person decided that getting that lil bit of extra sex was worth a lifetime of friendship. Though i still keep in contact with them . I realize that a loyal friendship would never be restored.

Misses Me Too
She some how can do everything that you can do...Trust she told me " Me Too" she is another one, her loyalty lays to him , but his loyalty lays to me on occasions..lol and for some reason instead of her just coming out and saying that she felt it was better just to prove how disloyal she could actually be.

Powerful Prayer
Dont let them fool you , they are still trying to find themselves . So unfortunately in the simplest situation they became lost that quick. When it all came down to it they chose door B . Now there is nothing wrong with choosing Door B because everyone is entitled to there options. But those options are also entitled to closing that door forever. I will say that this was the one that got under my skin the most because i felt that how can someone that you think is such genuine person could never become the complete opposite. I was completely wrong and shell shocked. In my heart i said "this cant be happening to me" and In my head it was saying "there have been red flags since day one."




You cant be Loyal to everyone, and you cant expect everyone to be Loyal to you....

No Love Lost ....

Its amazing how many people think that if someone walks out of your life , that your life is over or what can you do without them. They have invested so much Love into that person that they just dont know what to do. My motto is No Love Lost , there is a good reason why there time is up in your life and you might not understand it at the moment but even if it takes years for you yo finally get the picture . You one day will understand how your better off without them. You cant find new love if your still concentrated on trying to make your old love your new love. I have alot of friends out there with this exact problem. I use to be that girl also, i finally had to take a step back re evaluate my situation and realize that it was time to move on. So when someone walks out your life think " No Love Lost" just more love to give someone else..

Damn its been a long time...Way to Long... Lets see how long it takes me to catch up. Maybe I just can start from right now...Sounds good to me.

Dictionary Definition

Everything has a definition...every word can be defined as something. Many words can have numerous definitions.,but how do you know what definition is defining your words. Words are just words its how you say the words and what type of sentence you use with your words helps one build some sort of definition. Emotion felt through the words can also help. It can extremely hinder a person when they can only use the Standard Dictionary to define someones words in which they are trying to gain an understanding. If you know someone and you know them well why continue to use standard definitions when communicating with them. By now your words and their words should hold a new type a meaning in your head.

In my opinion i feel as if you love me and you care about me , you care enough to gain some type of understanding of what I'm talking about. If you care to continue using standard definitions to define our communication, we have an issue and its a Communication Barrier .

Why is it that for two people to effectively communicate you tend to have that one person that never understand clearly what your say the first time? Why is it that we need to have a continuous argument about the definition of words by emotion. Choosing to only use standard definitions when you have various options of defining will continue to be a problem for us until we both understand the value of a word and the many meanings the word contains.

More to come Tomorrow

More to come tomorrow im getting sleepy and tomorrow your going to need Quality because there is some lessons to be learned and things to know that you should not do...

Toodles

Ms. Terry

Rocky Roads

So how this all starts is so crazy so ill just begin:

This summer was quite the summer my cousin that is younger than i was mack of the year i shall say, and probably with a little assistance from me he was able to pull this off. But in the end i had nothing to do with the outcome. i wish i did because i wouldnt be minus a friend a plus a baby (not me my bestie). I thought that things could be brought to the forefront and just be dealt with and all of us could move on. I would have to say that i wasnt a great role model in this situation either because in my own world i was playing this deadly game also. I will say that we both had been dealing with two or more people that are involved in the same circle. Which i will say that it all started out innocent but then gradually turned into a deadly love game. I believe that the ones that had us so long really had started to take us for granted and i think thats what lead us both to open our hearts to other people. What we failed to do was keep the other people in the same loop and basically was sneaking around with them. The two new people knew what was going on but everyone else was in the dark. Well when we decided to let everyone know what was really going on our situations became more different than similar. He decided to go back to the other girl and left the one girl hanging. Well that lasted about 4 and half days because she then found out she was several months pregnant and to everyone's surprise including her's that wasn't what we were expecting.. So gradually the other girl was pushed to the back and decided that she was ok with leaving him alone and finding something new. In my situation i chose up and decided to leave my old news alone and decided to start fresh with the new news. Never expecting anything to come out of it just a fresh beginning with someone that was more on the same page with me. Well now the story begins.............

Its about that Time

Well its been so long since i have blogged , i really don't have any legitimate excuse besides the fact that i have been lazy. Man i have so much to say so it might take me a few days to get everything out. From finding Love unexpectedly , losing a friend over some bullshit, having a new addition to our group, space finding, moving on, parenting, and just everything so brace your self its going to be good...

When its all said it done

Many of us put are selves in very awkward positions not knowing what could be the outcome. Many of us dont care about what the outcome could be, and many of us are so shocked by the outcome that we never even prepared ourselves for the good or the bad, we are just stuck.
When it's all said it done i have to say i placed my self in an awkward situation not knowing or caring about the outcome. i only was trying to become a better person , but in the end i ended up learning a very valuable lesson that i will take dear to heart. I know that right now so many things are going on in the lives of the one's i love and the saddest thing about it is that we ae so shocked by the outcome that we have not even initiated the step to take forward . This will be an interesting journey .