Dictionary Definition

Everything has a definition...every word can be defined as something. Many words can have numerous definitions.,but how do you know what definition is defining your words. Words are just words its how you say the words and what type of sentence you use with your words helps one build some sort of definition. Emotion felt through the words can also help. It can extremely hinder a person when they can only use the Standard Dictionary to define someones words in which they are trying to gain an understanding. If you know someone and you know them well why continue to use standard definitions when communicating with them. By now your words and their words should hold a new type a meaning in your head.

In my opinion i feel as if you love me and you care about me , you care enough to gain some type of understanding of what I'm talking about. If you care to continue using standard definitions to define our communication, we have an issue and its a Communication Barrier .

Why is it that for two people to effectively communicate you tend to have that one person that never understand clearly what your say the first time? Why is it that we need to have a continuous argument about the definition of words by emotion. Choosing to only use standard definitions when you have various options of defining will continue to be a problem for us until we both understand the value of a word and the many meanings the word contains.

More to come Tomorrow

More to come tomorrow im getting sleepy and tomorrow your going to need Quality because there is some lessons to be learned and things to know that you should not do...

Toodles

Ms. Terry

Rocky Roads

So how this all starts is so crazy so ill just begin:

This summer was quite the summer my cousin that is younger than i was mack of the year i shall say, and probably with a little assistance from me he was able to pull this off. But in the end i had nothing to do with the outcome. i wish i did because i wouldnt be minus a friend a plus a baby (not me my bestie). I thought that things could be brought to the forefront and just be dealt with and all of us could move on. I would have to say that i wasnt a great role model in this situation either because in my own world i was playing this deadly game also. I will say that we both had been dealing with two or more people that are involved in the same circle. Which i will say that it all started out innocent but then gradually turned into a deadly love game. I believe that the ones that had us so long really had started to take us for granted and i think thats what lead us both to open our hearts to other people. What we failed to do was keep the other people in the same loop and basically was sneaking around with them. The two new people knew what was going on but everyone else was in the dark. Well when we decided to let everyone know what was really going on our situations became more different than similar. He decided to go back to the other girl and left the one girl hanging. Well that lasted about 4 and half days because she then found out she was several months pregnant and to everyone's surprise including her's that wasn't what we were expecting.. So gradually the other girl was pushed to the back and decided that she was ok with leaving him alone and finding something new. In my situation i chose up and decided to leave my old news alone and decided to start fresh with the new news. Never expecting anything to come out of it just a fresh beginning with someone that was more on the same page with me. Well now the story begins.............

Its about that Time

Well its been so long since i have blogged , i really don't have any legitimate excuse besides the fact that i have been lazy. Man i have so much to say so it might take me a few days to get everything out. From finding Love unexpectedly , losing a friend over some bullshit, having a new addition to our group, space finding, moving on, parenting, and just everything so brace your self its going to be good...

When its all said it done

Many of us put are selves in very awkward positions not knowing what could be the outcome. Many of us dont care about what the outcome could be, and many of us are so shocked by the outcome that we never even prepared ourselves for the good or the bad, we are just stuck.
When it's all said it done i have to say i placed my self in an awkward situation not knowing or caring about the outcome. i only was trying to become a better person , but in the end i ended up learning a very valuable lesson that i will take dear to heart. I know that right now so many things are going on in the lives of the one's i love and the saddest thing about it is that we ae so shocked by the outcome that we have not even initiated the step to take forward . This will be an interesting journey .

Mild Roller Coaster

Wow what a day was Thursday...Thursday wasnt Wednesday nor Friday. My life was like a mild roller coaster yesterday. oh my where do i start..

I'm always watching drastic changes in my friends lives and others around me, but never really seem to be paying enough attention to my own life and the mild changes that im going through. So i have been slightly knocked off my rocker, because of a certain change in my life. Funny thing is i thought i had total control of the situation , come to find out im starting to become a hot mess. So im taking the time today to regroup and rethink my strategy to either learn to deal with this new change or .......

So between the ups and downs of yesterday , with the help of Aunt Flo she also had my emotions spinning out of control i really cant explain what the hell was wrong with me. So hopefully that explains my mood of yesterday.

Getting Pass the Present and Preparing for the Future

Some people can get so caught up on whats going on in the now that they dont remind themselves that its only setting you up for the future. The future can not be totally be planned out but the present can determine the direction of your future. If you get caught up on the negative from your past and you bring it to your present it sure will continue to follow you into your future. You should never dwell of what has happened in the past because there is no way that you can change it, the positive thing about the past is that you can learn from any mistakes that you have made and think of ways that you will not repeat them. Now when it comes to your present you should really focus on staying positive and taking life day by day and enjoying it for what it is. You can not get caught up in the negative in your present and shouldnt even allow the negative to be affecting your present because you should be taking the lessons learned from your past and applying them to your day to day life to help your life run smoother.

Predicting your future is what you should be focusing on in your present. You cant believe that everything is going to go Perfect because there is no such thing as perfect but you can direct your self in the right path towards your BRIGHT future. You can make sure that your future exist but only WITH the grace of God by your side. Your Future is also determined by the amount of change that you allow to happen. Change is so many things and can be percieved as many things but honestly Change is Constant and there's nothing much you can do about it. Even if you choose not to change, Change is constantly happening around you whether it be good or bad.

So Quote for today....due to some morning inspiration :

"Noone can got back and start a new begining , but anyone can start today and create a new ending.!!"

Getting on it

Many days i seen have gone by and i havent had a chance to sit done and blog..(thanks Rhondolyn) So this is my designated time to do so.

What Last night Brought Me...

These ladies ..I ride and die for on a daily basis...( I sounded a tad hood) But these are the friends that keep me motivated and keep me moving when i am down. Last night was just another reality check on how i need to to stay focus and keep moving. I cant keep putting myself out there and trying to help others that dont want to be helped. My Bestie Tosha is one of the most realest people i know besides the ladies above and she woud tell me right now that i need to stay focus and leave these losers behind. See its funny how people think they know what i'm doing when in actuality they have no idea. I have to understand and continue to help my friends understand that we are who we are. And if people cant accept us for who we are Fuck'em. We are One of God's gifts to this earth and we do alot for others and it seems that alot of people close to us ,take us beyond forgranted. But we can fix that..

Main Focus

We have goals and we have let others take us off track...we need to continue to stay on track . My main focus is to complete school and i will do it no matter what.

Family

I mean i must be moved tonight becasue i feel like this is a topic that i could blog about for a while i mean im just in shock. My family is so divided it is crazy and it really doesnt make sense. If you were to just meet us off the street and see us all together you would be able to tell us that we act like a true family but if you were to see us in different environments you wouldnt even know that other people exists?? ok let me break it down just so people can understand the blood relation

Willie & Ruby (My Great Grandparents)
Willie (My Grandfather)

• Jeffery- Tiffynee(Jai)-Jeffery-Shontee(tariana,ashanti,sade)
• Charisse-Adam-Brandon
• Bryan- Jamar-Keith-Britani
• Tonya- Adreanna-Cameron
• Angie-tangie-tajanae-trinnitte
• *Micco*
• *Sharon* -sharice- *jameer*
• *Sean* - sean jr- *malika*

Matt

• Lanette
• Adrease

David (Deceased)

• Jamaal -jamaal jr- ?

Alvin (Deceased)

• *Arvid*
• Alvin Jr-Marissa
• Madge

Sandy(deceased)

• Ronnie-Ryan-Bobby
• Terry-Tj-Jordan-?

Curtis

• Rusty
• Jason-Jasianna-Jalayah-Jada-Jasa
• Trinette
• Taya
• Curty

So Proof that we are all related right??? Cuz above listed is My great grandparents kids and there kids and there kids kids and there kidskids kids....But would you ever imagine that there was so much division??? it didnt use to be with some of the deceased was alive...Ponder on that im going to bed...